Too sexy for my hair: a cancer blog

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Day 13: Things I'll Never Forget About Lori

Her Lust For Life!

In spite of her grim prognosis, Lori never stopped living life to its fullest, and for that I will be forever grateful.

She could have easily given up when she was diagnosed with stage IV cancer (gawd knows I wanted to at times,) but instead she grabbed her life by the horns and rode it for all it was worth.

I absolutely adore this photo.

It was taken during an impromptu trip to Lake Tahoe, where we stayed at a funky little red hotel, played the slots at one of the casinos, and did lots of hiking, and of course mountain biking.

Lori had the camera that my father had recently given her, and we took photos everywhere we went.

As always, in spite of not feeling the greatest, and in spite of the underlying anxiety of cancer that always followed us around––we had an incredible time that weekend. I remember basking in each other's company, taking a long stroll in the summer mountain evening, and eating ice cream somewhere near the State Line.

Most of all I remember cherishing this wonderful slice of time with my one true love.

Missing you, baby!
--Cary

3 Comments:

Blogger coopgirlkiz said...

Another great post Cary....thanks!

10:00 PM  
Blogger disco said...

yeah. i love that the helmet says vigor! too perfect. jeez cary, with each post i find out how much i didn't know about lori. i only knew a little bit about her, and her personality. i felt like i knew her underlying thoughtfulness and mettle from her comments and a little writing back and forth. i guess one didn't have to know her very well to know that she was something special.

i am so thankful for you for telling the rest of the story that most of us didn't, or wouldn't, know. it's like we get to know her better and better with each post.
how cool is that?! i guess it's kinda weird, but i'm really thankful.

lori- someday, when we all meet again, i hope i get to tell you that i grabbed the bull by the horns too. i'm working on it. i still have a long way to go i guess, but damn, i'm certainly motivated. you are something special indeed.

10:53 PM  
Blogger ehoogie said...

Disco: I am agreeing with you a lot lately but ditto ditto ditto.

Cary: I too have to thank you for sharing Lori with us so unselfishly.

9:48 PM  
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